Wednesday, November 26, 2008

The Prophet's Remedies

Milk: The Prophet(SAW) said that milk wipes away heat from the heart just as the finger wipes away sweat from the brow. It strengthens the back, increases the brain, augments intelligence, renews vision and drives away forgetfulness.

Honey: Considered to be the best remedy for diarrhoea when mixed in hot water. It is the food of foods, drink of drinks and drug of drugs. It is used for creating appetite, strengthening the stomach, eliminating phelgm, as a meat preservative, hair conditioner, eye salve and mouthwash. It is extremely beneficial in the morning in warm water and is also a sunnah.

Olive oil: excellent treatment for skin and hair, delays aging, treats inflammation of the stomach

Mushroom: The Prophet(SAW) said that mushroom is a good cure for the eyes, it also serves as a form of birthcontrol and arrests paralysis.

Grapes: The Prophet was very fond of grapes, it purifies the blood, provides vigour and health, strengthens the kidneys and clears the bowels.

Dates: The Prophet(SAW) said that a house without dates has no food. Also to be eaten at the time of childbirth.

Figs: It is a fruit from paradise and a cure for piles.

Barley: Good for fever in a soup form

Melon: Melon contains 1000 blessings and 1000 mercies, The prophet SAW said "None of your women who are pregnant and eat of water melon will fail to produce off spring who are good in counternanace and good in character.

Pomegranate: The Prophet(SAW) said it cleanse you of Satan and evil aspirations for 40 days.

Water: the Prophet(SAW) said the best drink in this world and the next is Water, when you are thirsty drink it by sips and not gulps, gulping produces sickness of the liver.

Good Morning :)

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No one is born happy...
But all of us are born with the ability to create happiness...

So today, make others happy...
Flash your sweetest smile ...

Have A Day Full Of Smiles.

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Interesting facts about Sajdah -- Prostration

Your Body receives a huge amount of Electromagnetic waves daily!

You get these Electromagnetic waves through the Electrical Equipments that you use and the various equipments which you can not leave!

Also, through the electrical lights which can not be switched off in certain cases for even an hour!

You are a source which receives huge amounts of Electromagnetic waves! In other words, you are charged with electromagnetic waves without realizing it!

You have headache! You feel uncomfortable!

Laziness, in action and pain in different places!

Do not forget this when you feel some of these symptoms!

What is the solution from all this??!!

A non Muslim Scientist (From Europe) made a research from which he concluded that the best way for the body to remove the positive Electromagnetic charges which hurts the body is:

By putting your forehead on the ground more than once, so that the ground will discharge the positive harmful Electromagnetic charges!

This is similar to the grounding of the buildings where any positive electrical signals (Like thunders) would be discharged through the ground.

So, put your forehead on the ground to discharge the positive electrical signals!

What makes this research more amazing is that:

The best is to put your forehead on the sand

And it becomes more amazing that:

The best way is to put your forehead on the ground while you are positioned to the centre of the Earth! Since you will be able to discharge the Electromagnetic signals in a better and more efficient way!

And you will be amazed when you know that Mecca is scientifically proven to be the centre of the Earth!
And that Kaa’ba is the exact centre of the Earth!

So, “Prostration” (Sajdah) in your prayers is:

The best way to discharge the harmful electromagnetic signals from your body!

It is also the ideal way to be very close from the Almighty who created this universe in such a creative way!

Allah Almighty will always ask us to do things because they are helpful and useful for us!

There are cases when we won’t know the reason for a certain act, but sooner or later, you might be able to find the reason!

In any case, you should trust the Almighty Allah and know that whatever you do for Him, is the best for you!

We do not prostrate to discharge the electromagnetic waves, but to obey the Almighty Allah! We trust that in His commands, there is always a wisdom! Our trust is because He is the Creator, He knows everything!

However, since a scientific reason is available, it was essential to show it to the people so that they can see that whatever Muslims do, is good for them!

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Alwida

Kisi ko alwida kahna
Bohat taklif data ha
Omidain toot jati hain
Yaqeen pe be yaqeeni ka
Koher kuch aisa charhata ha
Dikhai kuch nahi data
Sojhai kuch nahi data
Dowa ka harf hontoon per
Mosalsal kapkapaty hain
Kisi khahish ka andeshy
Zahan main door jaty hain
Goman kuch asa hota ha kay
Jasy mil na pain ga
Yeh gahry zakhum forkat kay
Kisi sy sil na pain ga

Kisi ko alwida kahna
Bohat taklif data ha

Power Of Quran

1. Sura Yasin relief from azaab in the grave

2. Sura Rehman it will make us rich

3. Sura Al Waquiya it will release u from hunger

4. Sura Al Mulk brings light in ur grave

5. Sura Al Jasia it will bring peace in ur life


Keep reading Quran

10 things we waste !!

1. Our Knowledge:

Wasted by not taking action with it.

2. Our Actions:

Wasted by committing them without sincerity.

3. Our Wealth:

Wasted by using on things that will not bring us air (reward from Allah).
We waste our money, our status, our authority,on things which have no benefit in this life or in akhirah (hereafter).

4. Our Hearts:

Wasted because they are empty from the love of Allah, and the feeling of longing
to go to Him, and a feeling of peace and contentment. In its place, our hearts are filled with something or someone else.

5. Our Bodies:

Wasted because we don't use them in ibadah (worship) and service of Allah.

6. Our Love:

Our emotional love is misdirected, not towards Allah, but towards something /someone else.

7. Our Time:

Wasted, not used properly, to compensate for that which has passed, by doing what is
righteous to make up for past deeds.

8. Our Intellect:

Wasted On things those are not beneficial, that are detrimental to society and the
individual, not in contemplation or reflection.

9. Our Service:

Wasting service of someone who will not bring us closer to Allah, or benefit in
dunyaa (this world).

10. Our Zikr (Remembrance of Allah):

Wasted, because it does not touch us or our hearts.

Think about that its very ture :(

:(

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Excellent Web Q&A

Check out this site. It contains excellent web question and answers.

http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/magazine/cc163708.aspx

Inspirational Words of Wisdom about Life

The Road to Success is not straight:
There is a curve called failure, a loop called confusion, speed bumps called friends, caution lights called family, and you will have flats called jobs.
But, if you have a spare called determination, an engine called perseverance, insurance called faith, and a driver called God, you will make it to a place called success!


Live for something:

Do good, and leave behind you a monument of virtue that the storms of time can never destroy.
Write your name in kindness, love, and mercy on the hearts of thousands you come in contact with year by year, and you will never be forgotten. Your name and your good deeds will shine as the stars of heaven.


Pearls of Wisdom:


* Don't love the Heart that hurts you and don't hurt the Heart that loves you.

* Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.

* Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.

* Most people walk in and out of your life, but only friend's leave footprints in your heart.

* True friendship "never" ends. Friends are forever.

* People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.

* If we are incapable of finding peace in ourselves, it is pointless to search elsewhere.

* The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other's life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the same roof.

* A change of heart changes everything.

* Our greatest glory is not in ever falling, but in rising every time we fall.

* You only live once - but if you work it right, once is enough.

* One generation plants trees, and the next enjoys the shade.

* It is difficult to live in the present, ridiculous to live in the future, and impossible to live in the past. Nothing is as far away as one minute ago.


You are what you think!


* Your inner thoughts can cause you to be rich or poor, loved or unloved, happy or unhappy, attractive or unattractive, powerful or weak.

* What you impress upon your mind, you'll inevitably become. It's a psychological law that whatever you desire to accomplish you must first impress upon your subconscious mind.

* Relentless, repetitive self talk will change your self image. You'll affect your subconscious mind with verbal repetition. Constant repetition carries conviction.

* When you change your values you'll change your behavior. Start thinking of yourself as becoming the person you want to be. Self suggestion will make you the master of yourself.

* If you believe you can, you can.

* You can become whatever you want to be.


Slow down:


* Life is not a race. It is a journey.

* Getting someplace first, before anyone else, has very little real and lasting meaning. Seek instead to encourage others to come along, and you'll find the journey much more fulfilling.

* When you hurry through each moment, you miss out on the richness that could be yours. Take the time to live, to experience where you are, rather than being so obsessed with getting to the next checkpoint.

* When you stop demanding to have it all now, you'll discover that you have plenty already. Learn to experience joy where you are, and you'll experience it in abundance.

* Yes, it can be wonderfully exhilarating when life is moving quickly. But do not move so quickly that speed becomes your only experience, for there is so much more to enjoy.

* The terrain of life is filled with wonderful and astounding detail. Slow down and take in its richness.


One step away:

* If you were just one step away from reaching your goal, would you take that step? How do you know, right now, that you're not?

* What a shame it would be to stop making the effort, when just a little bit more would make it all worthwhile. What a shame it would be to have taken all those steps, only to miss the very last one.

* The next step you take may very well be the one that makes all the others count. You owe it to yourself, and the efforts you've made, to keep going.

* No, the next step may not get you there. Yet what about the one after that? If you keep moving ahead, a little at a time, you will indeed arrive. When you take that final, triumphant step, you'll be so very thankful you persevered.

* At some point success is just one step away. Keep going and you'll be there.


Must do:


* In each task that must be done, there is opportunity. See the task not as a burden, but as an encouragement to be fully alive and effective.

* The real burden would be the inability to do anything. No task is a burden, but is instead the chance to express your own aliveness.

* Does the work seem dreary, unimaginative, tedious or boring? That's mainly because your attitude makes it so.

* See what happens when you start by being thankful for the opportunity to do it. Your genuine gratitude will help you to see the positive value.

* When the things you must do become things you want to do, it can transform your life. Each moment takes on more meaning; each effort brings greater and greater reward.

* Rather than fighting and forcing yourself to do what must be done, let go of your resistance and allow yourself to accomplish. Let what you must, become what you want, and watch yourself begin to soar.

Respect Your Parents

Long Back agoLong Back ago…
There was a huge Apple tree..

A Little boy loved to play with it.A Little boy loved to play with it..

He Love to climb the tree, love to eat apples…love to take the nap under its shadow

Times went onTimes went on…

The boy grew up…

And he no longer play around the tree
..
..
..
One day the boy came….


The Tree asked him.. “Hi.. Come and Play with me..”

The Boy replied.. “I am not a kid. I don’t play around tree”
“I play with toys. I need money to buy toys.”

The Tree said… “I don’t have money but you can take all my apples and sell it.
You will get the money.”

The boy picked all the apples of the tree and went..
He sold the apples and got money… he bought lots of toys…
But he didn’t turn back…
..
The Tree was again sad…
..
..

One day again the boy came, he became a young man now

The Tree said… “HI… Why are you Sad? Come and Sit under my shadow…
I am feeling very lonely without you...”

The boy said… “I don’t have time… I work for my family…
I want to build Home for them… I Need money…”

The Tree said.. “I don’t have money… You can take my Branches
and Trunk… and build your home…”

The boy became happy, He cut all the branches and trunk of the tree and
built a home for him...

Again the tree became alone..
..
The boy didn’t turned back..

Time passes on ..

After Long time the boy came back..
..
He was so old… Looking sad…
Tired… And lonely..

The Tree asked him.. “Why are you Sad..
I Wish.. I Can help you…
but I Don’t have Apples.. I don’t have branches….
Even I don’t have Shadow…

Nothing to offer you...

The Boy (old man) replied…
“I am tired of my life… I am alone…”

“I just need you… Can I sit down at your roots.”

The Boy (Old man) sit down .. Both were happy & weeping

Is the boy really cruel and selfish??
??
??
??
??
??

NO

We all are like him… And treating our parent like that….

The tree is like our parent We love to play them when we were kids…
We leave them alone…and come only when… We are in need or in trouble

We don’t have Time for our Parent…
No matter what, parent will always give everything….

To make us happy and solve our problems…
And in return what they want….
Just our company!

Please love to your parent…
Don’t forget them…
Give them Time…
Give them your company…
They will be happy by seeing you happy..…

Please Don’t leave your parent …
Gratitude them…
One can gets Child as many as he want, but parent he gets only once…

So Respect Your Parents.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Important info About Mobile -- Dangerous

This morning I heard a true and sad story from a colleague of mine. She told me one of her friends is always having abortions.

When the foetus gets to be 2-3 months old she loses it. This happened several times over. The couple went to check with many doctors and at last one of the doctors examined the dead baby and found that the baby's body cells kept dying as the baby was growing in the womb until he/she could not survive. This was because her uterus was affected by Handphone Radiation.

The doctor told her, she now has no chance to give birth to a healthy baby because the radiation has affected her uterus so that the major portion of the cells in her uterus have already died.

This happened because she has been keeping her hand phone in her working jacket so that the phone rested against just on the right spot of the uterus. She had been wearing it like this for a few years.

Please beware of this and take note if you don't want what has happened to this woman to happen to you.

Dearest friends & family members,

Please do not ignore hand phone radiation which will damage our health or body organs. Please put away your hand phone whenever you don't need it much.

Guys, Please do not keep your hand phone near to the kidney position and pants pocket .

The other doctor also advised another friend to keep her hand phone away from her new born baby to avoid radiation damage to the baby's brain cells.

Do not let the baby or toddler play with the hand phone. This is because the small young baby or toddler is still very fragile and growing, so he/she is much more vulnerable to radiation damage.


Please remember not to sleep together with your hand phone or put it next to your bed.


Keep any other electronic goods (such as tvs) which also give off radiation away from your bedroom to reduce risk as we have to sleep a few hours every day in our bedroom at night.


Further, do not imagine that if you switch off the TV there will be no radiation. Actually it is still around in your room.

It is not advisable to have even a small digital alarm clock close to your head while sleeping.


Take Care of yourself and your loved ones.

Egg Joke

There was once an Indian and a Pakistani who lived next door to each
other. The Pakistani owned a hen and each morning would look in his
garden and pick up one of his hen's eggs for breakfast.
One day he looked into his garden and saw that the hen had laid an egg
in the Indian's garden. He was about to go next door when he saw the
Indian pick up the egg. The Pakistani ran up to the Indian and told him
that the egg belonged to him because he owned the hen.
The Indian disagreed because the egg was laid on his property. They
argued for a while until finally the Pakistani said, "In my family we
normally solve disputes by the following actions: I kick you in the face
and time how long it takes you to get back up, then you kick me in the
face and time how long it takes for me to get up, whoever gets up
quicker wins the egg."
The Indian agreed to this and so the Pakistani found his heaviest pair
of boots and put them on, he took a few steps back, then ran toward the
Indian and kicked as hard as he could in the face.
The Indian fell to the floor clutching his jaw howling in agony for 30
minutes.
Eventually the Indian stood up and said, "Now it's my turn to kick you."
The Pakistani said, "Keep the damn egg!"

:)

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Old Jokes

Old Man-"putar ander se mere daant Le AA"

Pota-"par dada ji abhi roti to bani nahi"

Budda-- "o nahi putar roti nahi khani samne wali buddi nu smile deni a "

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Child: Mom is bar hum sare patakhe is shop se lein gey,

Mom : lekin beta ye to girls hostel hai,

Child: Papa to kahte hain k sari phul-jhadiyan yahi rahti hain.

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Ek ladke ko kya chahiye?

Ek ladki Jo pyar de,
Ek ladki Jo acha khana banaye,
Ek ladki Jo us ki khob khidmat kare,

Aur ye teeno larkiyan mil jul kar rahain. :p

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:)

Good Morning

Value each precious moment!
Morning brings hope,
Afternoon brings faith,
Evening brings love,
Night brings rest,
Wish u find them all today
And every day

No one is born happy,
But everyone are born with ability to create happiness,
So today make everyone happy by flashing your sweetest smile....

Comfort on difficult days,
Smiles when sadness intrudes,
Rainbows to follow the clouds,
Laughter to feel your lips,
Sunsets to warm your heart,
Gentle hugs when spirits sag,
Friendships to brighten your being,
Beauty for your eyes to see,
Confidence for when you doubt,
Faith so that you can believe,
Courage to know yourself,
Patience to accept the truth,
And love to complete your life.

Have a happy Day!!

Beautiful Sayings

Anger is a condition in which
the tongue works faster than the mind.

You can't change the past,
but you can ruin the present
by worrying over the future.

Love...and you shall be loved.

God always gives His best to those
who leave the choice with Him.

All people smile in the same language.

A hug is a great gift... one size fits all.
It can be given for any occasion
and it's easy to exchange.

Everyone needs to be loved...
especially when they do not deserve it.

The real measure of a man's wealth
is what he has invested in eternity.

Laughter is God's sunshine.

Everyone has beauty
but not everyone sees it.

It's important for parents to live
the same things they teach.

Thank God for what you have,
TRUST GOD for what you need.

If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the worries of
tomorrow,
you have no today to be thankful for.

Man looks at outward appearance
but the Lord looks within.

The choice you make today
will usually affect tomorrow.

Take time to laugh, for it is
the music of the soul.

If anyone speaks badly of you,
live so none will believe it.

Patience is the ability to idle your motor
when you feel like stripping your gears.

Love is strengthened by working
through conflicts together.

The best thing parents can do
for their children is to love each other.

Harsh words break no bones
but they do break hearts.

To get out of a difficulty,
one usually must go through it.

We take for granted the things
that we should be giving thanks for.

Love is the only thing that can be
divided without being diminished.

Happiness is enhanced by others
but does not depend upon others.

For every minute you are angry with someone,
you lose 60 seconds of happiness
that you can never get back.

Do what you can, for who you can,
with what you have, and where you are

Friday, November 7, 2008

Beautiful Quotes

1. I don't think much of a man who is not wise today than he was yesterday.
(Abraham Lincoln)

2. What is a friend? I will tell You...
It is someone with whome you dare to be yourself
(Frank Crane)

3. Three grand essentials to happiness in this life are:
Something to do, something to love, and something to hope for.
(Joshep Addison)

4. Some Joys are better expressed in Silence as a smile holds
more meaning than words. I was asked if i enjoy having You in my life, I smiled !

5. If you don't hope, You will not find what is beyond your hopes.
(St. Clement of Alexandra)

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Why I shed bikini for Niqab

By Sara Bokker (a former actress/model/fitness instructor and activist)


I AM an American woman who was born in the midst of America's "Heartland." I grew up, just like any other girl, being fixated with the glamour of life in "the big city." Eventually, I moved to Florida and on to South Beach of Miami, a hotspot for those seeking the "glamorous life." Naturally, I did what most average Western girls do. I focused on my appearance and appeal, basing my self-worth on how much attention I got from others. I worked out religiously and became a personal trainer, acquired an upscale waterfront residence, became a regular "exhibiting" beach-goer and was able to attain a "living-in-style" kind of life.

Years went by, only to realize that my scale of self-fulfillment and happiness slid down the more I progressed in my "feminine appeal." I was a slave to fashion. I was a hostage to my looks.

As the gap continued to progressively widen between my self-fulfillment and lifestyle, I sought refuge in escapes from alcohol and parties to meditation, activism, and alternative religions, only to have the little gap widen to what seemed like a valley. I eventually realized it all was merely a pain killer rather than an effective remedy.

By now it was Sept. 11, 2001. As I witnessed the ensuing barrage on Islam, Islamic values and culture, and the infamous declaration of the "new crusade," I started to notice something called Islam. Up until that point, all I had associated with Islam was women covered in "tents," wife beaters, harems, and a world of terrorism. As a feminist libertarian, and an activist, I was pursuing a better world for all.

One day I came across a book that is negatively stereotyped in the West – The Noble Qur'an. I was first attracted by the style and approach of the Qur'an, and then intrigued by its outlook on existence, life, creation, and the relationship between Creator and creation. I found the Qur'an to be a very insightful address to heart and soul without the need for an interpreter or pastor.

Eventually I hit a moment of truth: my new-found self-fulfilling activism was nothing more than merely embracing a faith called Islam where I could live in peace as a "functional" Muslim.

I bought a beautiful long gown and head cover resembling the Muslim woman's dress code and I walked down the same streets and neighborhoods where only days earlier I had walked in my shorts, bikini, or "elegant" Western business attire.

Although the people, the faces, and the shops were all the same, one thing was remarkably distinct – I was not – nor was the peace at being a woman I experienced for the very first time. I felt as if the chains had been broken and I was finally free. I was delighted with the new looks of wonder on people's faces in place of the looks of a hunter watching his prey I had once sought. Suddenly a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. Finally, I was free.

Of all places, I found my Islam at the heart of what some call "the most scandalous place on earth," which makes it all the more dear and special.

While content with Hijab I became curious about Niqab, seeing an increasing number of Muslim women in it. I asked my Muslim husband, whom I married after I reverted to Islam, whether I should wear Niqab or just settle for the Hijab I was already wearing. My husband simply advised me that he believes Hijab is mandatory in Islam while Niqab is not. At the time, my Hijab consisted of head scarf that covered all my hair except for my face, and a loose long black gown called "Abaya" that covered all my body from neck to toe.

A year-and-a-half passed, and I told my husband I wanted to wear Niqab. My reason, this time, was that I felt it would be more pleasing to Allah, the Creator, increasing my feeling of peace at being more modest.

He supported my decision and took me to buy an "Isdaal," a loose black gown that covers from head to toe, and Niqab, which covers all my head and face except for my eyes. Soon enough, news started breaking about politicians, Vatican clergymen, libertarians, and so-called human rights and freedom activists condemning Hijab at times, and Niqab at others as being oppressive to women, an obstacle to social integration, and more recently, as an Egyptian official called it – "a sign of backwardness."

I find it to be a blatant hypocrisy when Western governments and so-called human rights groups rush to defend woman's rights when some governments impose a certain dress code on women, yet such "freedom fighters" look the other way when women are being deprived of their rights, work, and education just because they choose to exercise their right to wear Niqab or Hijab.

Today I am still a feminist, but a Muslim feminist, who calls on Muslim women to assume their responsibilities in providing all the support they can for their husbands to be good Muslims. To raise their children as upright Muslims so they may be beacons of light for all humanity once again. To enjoin good – any good – and to forbid evil – any evil. To speak righteousness and to speak up against all ills. To fight for our right to wear Niqab or Hijab and to please our Creator whichever way we chose. But just as importantly to carry our experience with Niqab or Hijab to fellow women who may never have had such a chance.

Most of the women I know wearing Niqab are Western reverts, some of whom are not even married. Others wear Niqab without full support of either family or surroundings. What we all have in common is that it is the personal choice of each and every one of us, which none of us is willing to surrender.

Willingly or unwillingly, women are bombarded with styles of "dressing-in-little-to-nothing" virtually in every means of communication everywhere in the world.

As an ex non-Muslim, I insist on women's right to equally know about Hijab, its virtues, and the peace and happiness it brings to a woman's life as it did to mine. Yesterday, the bikini was the symbol of my liberty, when in actuality it only liberated me from my spirituality and true value as a respectable human being.

Today, Niqab is the new symbol of woman's liberation.

To women who surrender to the ugly stereotype against the Islamic modesty of Hijab, I say: You don't know what you are missing.



– Sara Bokker is a former actress/model/fitness instructor and activist.

42 Tips for A Better Life

1. When you wake up in the morning, always start your day with a prayer/vision.

2. And then, complete the following statement, My purpose is to__________ today.

3. Take a 10 to 30-minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.

4. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.

5. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

6. Drink plenty of water and fresh juices. Eat blueberries, salad, wild Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds, etc.

7. Make at least three people smile each day.

8. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present.

9. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.

10. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone, so give the best of your kindness.

11. Take yourself seriously.

12. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

13. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

14. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don't compare your partner with others either.

15. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. So, be happy.

16. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

17. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.

18. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

19. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: In five years, will it matter? Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

20. Forgive everyone for everything.

21. Read more books and watch less TV than you did last year.

22. What other people think of you is none of your business.

23. Allah has everything you'll every need in life so hook up with Him.

24. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

25. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation; don't bring up the past.

26. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

27. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

28. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

29. Keep believing that the best is yet to come.

30. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.

31. Each day give something good to others.

32. Don't over do. Keep your limits.

33. Sleep for 7 hours every day or whatever your body needs.

34. Don't trust someone who doesn't close their eyes when you kiss them.

35. Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.

36. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.

37. Do the right thing!

38. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements:
I am thankful for__________
Today I accomplished_________

39. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

40. Trust in Allah, but lock your car.

41. Realize that as you get older, you are not approaching death, but heaven.

42. Know that Allah heals everything.

Koi Zabt Day NA Jalal Day...

Koi Zabt Day Na Jalal Day,
Mujhy Bas Itna Kamal DAy,
Main Har Ek Ka Banoon Sada,
Kay Zamana Meri Misal Day....

Teri Rehmatoon Ka Nazool Ho,
Meri Mehnatoon Ko Sila Mily,
Mujhy Mal-o-Zar Ki Hawis Na Ho,
Mujhy Bas Tou Rizk-e-Halal Day...

Mere Zehan Main Teri Fikar Ho,
Meri Sans Main Tera Zikar Ho,
Tera Khoof Meri Nijat Ho,
Sabhi Khoof Dil Se Nikal Day...

Teri Bargah Main Ay Khuda,
Meri Shab-o-Roz Hay Yehi Dua,
Tou Raheem Hay Tou Kareem Hay,
Tou Sabhi Balaoon Ko Taal Day...

Ameen